Friendship & Love

Well its quite a common topic to write about am sure…but still it doesn't hurt to write down some of my grievings.

Am a girl who considers friendship the most valuable thing in my life. But as it happens i always get thwarted by it. Friendship is supposedly the only support for love but in many cases i have seen that once love gets settled its doesn’t even give a customary glance back at friendship.

Its quite hard for me to say that personally i have seen Love break up two people and leave at least one of them bitter. Couple of gals i know where inseparable right from their middle school. They were two different people with different attitudes different goals one of them Soft & Sensitive but the other Hard & Practical but they where best befriends… soul mates. It so happened that when they where in college the sensitive one fell in love for the first and last time with her Mr . Right, but it wasn't easy the guy had to court her for long and of course Miss Practical friend helped them out. In the end..as they say true love always wins.

But then…….

A lifelong friendship gets second place. Miss Practical dint like the fact that she was only a secondary importance in her best friend’s life. A friend who was always by her side when the world stood against her. Loneliness can be handled but to feel lonely when you are in crowd of people who call themselves your friends is a worst nightmare. Miss Practical dint have any Mr Rights to keep her company and all her friends including her so called Best Friend had things better to do. I saw the bitterness that crept into that gal from then on. She found fault with all the things that her once best friend did. Finally bitterness turned to downright hatred…then finally the where best friends no more.

By observing all this i did realize that no body can keep love and friendship in the same platform and survive the emotional drama that will surely unfold. I realize now that no matter in which place your friend puts you she will always be your friend no Mr Right can change the fact. If you really feel that your friendship is strong than don't worry about it when she doesn’t wish you first on your birthday, when she is not able to keep up a appointment with you. Its not your friends fault that she suddenly stooped her attentions on you. In her/his shoes you’ll probably do the same thing. No matter how much farther your friend moves away from you because of love, remember that one day she’ll need your friendship more than anything and when that day comes you’ll prove to all that no matter how much you push friends away when you stop and turn back they will always be there right behind you.

Love is always a tricky platform, it demands too much attention and in the end if your lucky enough you would have made the right choice and live happily ever after.

Friendship is something that relates you to another for no good reason, it needs attention but never demands it. Its happy with what it gets but doubles the amount of love when needed. And friends will always…no matter what disaster strikes live happily ever after.

Friends this is my personal experience with my own best friend. So all you friends out there Give away all your love and expect nothing in return from your friend as that is the true essence of friendship.